Recognizing when you are becoming Negative…
There is not a man that has not had highs and lows…
All the highs… the successes… the good stuff that happened to you, has happened because you are good….
The lows… the failures… the bad stuff has happened because of someone else!!!
It is but understood… for you know that you are perfect! How can you EVER be the reason for being miserable… It ought to have been inflicted upon you by someone else… for you are perfect… and good!!!
Well!!! You now have to share your sorry state with your friend… your trusted associate… your friendly coworker…
He not only empathizes with you…. he even relates to your miseries… for now, you are two perfect and good people that are being subject to these problems…
And quickly you are seeking solace in sharing those tough moments that were so unfairly placed on you!!! The time you take to discuss these problems is but needed for you to get past your pain so you may then focus on your work and move on with your life… To talk about how “those others” are wrong and borderline bad and insensitive is so very important!!! Your points are so very well taken… it is all so justifiable….
For a moment here, look into yourself… Have you recognized what you have become yet???
