Need for constant emotional release… A sign of regression!!!
Every person has had to resort to some form of an emotional release to get back to a state of equilibrium… a state where you feel like you are again able to perform at your potential… ‘cos you finally feel stable again… emotionally… psychologically!!!
What then define an emotional wreck from the stoic are
– the frequency… how often
– the intensity… how much
– the distribution… how many end up taking notice
of ones emotional upheavals…..
Observe yourself and determine which end of the spectrum between the stoic and the wreck you are at!
The closer to the stoic, the more peaceful you are!!! Farther out… And you might be a mess!!!
Being stoic is not about being bereft emotions… it is about the ability to endure injury by realizing that you are bigger!!!
It’s the kid that cannot endure… The kid that needs that constant reassurance… The kid that feels insecure… The kid that has to complain and sulk and self sympathize…
STOP Regressing!!! Be the adult that you are meant to be!!! Live peacefully and live at your full potential… All the time!!!