Birds of the same feather
Your core image of yourself ultimately dictates what you make of yourself.
Your circle of friends speaks of how you think, act and work.
The people you move with somehow reflects your self-image.
That is who you are within. That is who you are or become.
That is color of your inner being… the color of your feather, that blends with the color of your flock!
Put yourself in the flock you want to belong in. Work on drenching yourself in that hue in your inner being. You will soon find the likes of who you would like to move with flocking around you.