The best form of learning…. The best part of learning!!!
When you ask yourself what has worked for you and what has not… you will see in your experience, your failure to detect the variables that influenced your failure….
You will have to reflect on why you missed detecting those variables and what you should and can do to not miss detecting them should you encounter such a situation again!
This type of a rear view mirror based self analysis is probably our ‘best form of learning’!
It does you no good to merely view such experiences as bitter or as difficult times or as situations where you found yourself less than adequate and stop at fretting over them!
Know them instead as frames of reference (based on previous experience) for how to equip yourself to proactively detect and thereby handle them effectively… you would have put your learnings to bring you success… and that is ‘the best part of learning’!!!