Pretentious or genuine
Where not recognizing the pretentious could be dangerous for you, mis-recognizing the genuine could be devastating for the other!!! And there, how can one prevent oneself from being judgmental and yet risk ones most treasured relationships but in the fear of losing all one owns!!!
Man’s piteous state of swaying to and fro in this unforgiving tempest caused but by his own insecurities, uncertainties and immaturities… Oh! The unfairness of human existence!!!