It’s all within you!!!
I have learnt this much… that at the end, all responsibility lies with you! And in a perfectly just universe, it is only to be expected that you have been vested with all the intellectual capabilities to be able to handle it all…
The problem then, is not lack of capability or intellect… rather, the inability to determine the precise action that is to be taken at the most opportune moment!
The difference between the ones that are able to navigate through problems with ease or avoid them completely and the ones that seem to be afflicted with one or the other issue is simply the ability to detect ensuing events and take appropriate action…
You can attribute it to external events, other people, etc all you want to if it makes you feel better…. But end of the day, it matters not!
If you are honest with yourself and are able to objectively and dispassionately trace back through all events that lead you to where you are at, you will recognize that what got you there is your philosophy, your attitude, your tendencies and your actions!
And what will get you out is again your sheer will to get what you want… to be happy… to be peaceful!