Do not ignore indications….
The universe around you and the people that you interact with are constantly giving you indications of what it is and who they are….
Let not your pre-occupations nor your deliberate turning of a blind eye and a deaf ear to obvious clues be reasons for you to go down a pathway that would never have gotten you where you really want to go!
Listen to your inner self. Let him lead the way! What is he telling you?