Play for a win-win… Not just for a win….
Winning is fun… the feeling of achievement… of success… the resultant celebration… the confidence it generates… You so totally want to play to Win!!!
Life however, is not a game of chess where you win or lose….
Once you understand how life works, you will realize that when you play too hard to cause the other to ‘lose’, your (short term) ‘win’ may actually end up becoming a permanent ‘stalemate’…
Play for a win-win…
There is far greater fun in life when you work for the success of those around you… Life is not about you verses them…
Life is a symphony of human interactions…. It is a mentality of creating abundance… of trust… of exchanging and thereby becoming an instrument of exchanging value for value…
Win-win is a frame of mind and of heart that seeks mutual benefit in every human play… And such are the only plays that will bring you the permanence of victory…