Deciding based on what others think is a sign of weakness and timidity…
Society is transient… Law is ever changing… Norms can be challenged… Morality is subjective… Why worry about such transient stuff?
Shut off the outside world…. It’s but noise!!! See what’s in the inner recesses of your heart… your being!
Is that true? Is that pure?? Is that what you really want???
If ‘yes’…. just go after it! Go get what you are meant to have!!!
Let not the fickleness of the outside world that imposes its borrowed dictum on you, sway you from going after what you are meant to have!!!
Decide, ‘cos that is what YOU wish to have… Discard others’ opinions… And you WILL have it!!!