Time is the healer….
Time heals; or does it???
There are things that you can do something about and there are things that you can do nothing about!
Saying “Time heals” is just a gentler form of accepting your helplessness… your defeat! You are letting yourself forget the fact that you did not get what you wanted or that you lost what was dear to you because you could not do anything about it!
While the universal mechanism of creation, sustenance and dissolution binds you in its inevitable design in a few aspects of life, most aspects afford you far greater ability to do what it takes to bend them in your favor.
It is up to you to wield the power you have to get the situation in your grapple or to succumb to what might seem is grappling your being.
Time is what renders most things on earth irrelevant over the long run. In a hundred years, none of your problems will matter any more… in a 150 years, no one will even remember your name and in a thousand years, the country and the world as you know it today would be so different that the most complex and demanding problems of today would be lost into complete oblivion.
Time is not the healer… Time at best renders things irrelevant.
You are the healer, for you are the only one that can do something about the problem.
If it can be fixed, do something about it. If you are waiting for time, it is just a question of time before your life becomes irrelevant.